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Let’s start with some basics and general advice:
A period is the 2-7 days when blood and tissue leave a female body through the vagina. This is also called menstrual flow.
Having your period means that your body is physically capable of becoming pregnant.
Most girls start menstruating between ages 10 and 14.
You can keep track of your period with a period calendar or app (such as Clue or Flo).
It is very common to have irregular periods during the first few years after starting menstruation.
Once you start having your period, you can use any of the period products available—regardless of your age or whether you have had sex or not—including the ones you insert into your vagina. Pick whatever is most comfortable and practical for you.
Period products cannot get lost inside of you. At the top of your vaginal canal is the cervix (the opening to the uterus) and it won’t allow anything past it… except sperm. Meaning no period products can travel past your cervix; they stay in your vagina.
“Breaking your hymen” or “popping your cherry” is a bit of a myth. The hymen is just a piece of skin that can stretch and also heal… so to speak. The hymen can be altered during regular activities such as physical exercise as well.
To prevent blood staining on your underwear or clothes (and even your sheets), change your clothes as soon as you can and apply hydrogen peroxide to the blood-soaked area immediately. Then soak the clothes in cold water (NOT hot) with a little laundry detergent or soap. You can wash them with your other laundry. This method usually does the trick!
It’s important to shower and clean your vulva (the outside of your vagina) at least once a day, especially during your period. Do not use feminine hygiene deodorants as they can cause irritation of the vulva.
It’s completely normal for periods to have a slight smell. However, if you notice an unusual
odor coming from your vagina, you should call your health care provider.
The website AMAZE has a great video on pads, tampons, and cups. Just enter “product hygiene” in the search box and it’ll pop right up.
Alright, here are your options…
Disposable Pads
How they work:
Cotton pads that stick to your underwear to soak up blood
PROS:
- Easy to use – they are a great choice for beginners!
- Available in many different sizes and levels of absorbency (the amount of blood they can soak up) to align with how heavy or light your flow is during your period
- Can be safely worn overnight while sleeping
- Widely available – can be purchased at any supermarket and pharmacy as well as most small convenience stores
- Typically provide reliable protection
- Some come with “wings” to keep the pad in place and prevent leakage
CONS:
- They are single-use items that you throw in the trash after a few hours
- Not eco-friendly
- Should be changed every 3-4 hours, or as needed depending on your flow
- Can be restrictive for certain activities like exercise (swimming is not an option!)
- Leaking is possible, especially at night if you have a heavy flow or move around a lot
- Costly because supplies need to be purchased each month
Reusable Pads
How they work:
Cloth pads that you can wash and reuse after every use
PROS:
- Eco-friendly
- Last a long time – at least 2 years, and many women use them far longer
- Feel soft against skin, which many girls love (girls with sensory sensitivities may particularly appreciate the feel of cloth)
- Cute! They come in a huge array of colors, patterns, and designs; you can even learn to sew your own if you want a customized pad that’s just your style!
CONS:
- Will you be able to change your cloth pad during the day, store the used pad discreetly, and then remember to wash it at the end of the day?
- It is recommended that after using the pad, you rinse it, soak it overnight, and then wash it
- Should be changed every 3-4 hours, or as needed depending on your flow
- You should buy or make enough pads for one full cycle to make sure you don’t run out if you fall behind on washing them
- The upfront cost can seem quite steep – keep in mind though that you will save money over the long run because they are reusable
Tampons
How they work:
Pieces of cotton or rayon, or a blend of both, with a string at one end that you insert into your vagina to soak up blood; the string is used to pull the tampon out, which you should do at least every 8 hours
PROS:
- Available in varying levels of absorbency for heavy and light days
- You can swim and exercise comfortably using tampons
- You don’t feel the “wet” sensation of blood commonly experienced with pads
- Convenient – small, easy to discretely pack in your bag or pocket
CONS:
- Insertion can take a few tries to get used to for newbies
- Leaving a tampon in for too long can put you at risk of developing Toxic Shock Syndrome (TSS), a rare but very dangerous bacterial infection
- Leaking is possible when the tampon gets full before you change it
- Can clog toilets and pipes, so wrap the tampon in toilet paper and dispose of it in the trash instead of flushing it!
- If your tampon is not full upon removal, it might feel uncomfortable because the dry cotton is scraping the inner lining of your vagina – ouch!
- Costly because supplies need to be purchased each month
Menstrual Cups
How they work:
Soft, medical-grade silicone or rubber cups that are put into the vagina to catch the blood flow
PROS:
- Need to only be emptied every 8-12 hours; simply rinse under water and put it back in
- Can be reused for years with proper care
- Come in a variety of sizes and shapes; you can visit putacupinit.com for a quiz to help you find the right menstrual cup for you
- Menstrual cups are suitable for exercise and swimming
- Eco-friendly – you are able to drastically cut down on the number of menstrual products you use
CONS:
- It may take some time to figure out how to put it in and take it out
- You need to be really comfortable with inserting your fingers into your vagina to be able to insert and remove the cup
- Emptying and cleaning a cup away from home can be a bit awkward, especially for girls who are new to periods
- If you are squeamish about blood, this might not be the product for you as it requires emptying out and washing the cup after each use
- Range in price from $15-$40 – keep in mind though that a cup lasts several years
Reusable Period Underwear
How they work:
Absorbent underwear that looks and feels like regular underwear; can be used instead of pads or tampons when you have a light flow or as a back-up in combination with another period product when you have a heavy flow
PROS:
- Can be a solution for unpredictable spotting
- Eco-friendly compared to disposable menstrual products
CONS:
- Depending on your flow, these may only be a back-up to your normal period control if you have a heavy menstrual flow
- You may need to change your period underwear halfway through the day (and bring a waterproof bag for the used one)
- Not as comfortable as reusable pads
- You can’t swim with them
- Expensive – you’ll need quite a few pairs to make it through a menstrual cycle without having to constantly wash your underwear
Jody Schlesinger is the nurse navigator for Adolescent Medicine at Children’s Hospital in New Orleans where she helps teens and young adults get connected to the healthcare services they need to address concerns including menstrual disorders, contraception, STD testing, gender identity, and many other teenage health concerns.